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Rewards, Points and Allowance for Kids

How to set up a reward system that motivates kids: points per chore, reward ideas that are not toys, reward charts by age, allowance amounts and paid chores.

Small chore 5 points, medium 10, big 20
Small reward 30 to 50 points, big reward 300 to 500
Allowance rule of thumb: $1 a week per year of age
If you convert points to money: 100 points = $1

Rewards & motivation

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Common questions

Do reward systems spoil kids?

Not when rewards are small, earned for specific behavior and faded out as the habit forms. Experiences and privileges, like choosing the family movie, work as well as toys and keep the focus on effort.

How much allowance should a child get?

A common starting point is $1 per week for each year of age, so an 8-year-old gets about $8. Typical ranges are $3 to $7 for ages 5-7, $7 to $10 for ages 8-10 and $10 to $15 for ages 11-13.

How many points should a chore be worth?

Tie points to effort: 5 for a task of a few minutes, 10 for 10 to 15 minutes and 20 for a job of half an hour or more. Price rewards so a child can afford something small every 2 to 3 days.

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